Wow that was Shocking!

As in my last post huh? Thanks to those who checked on me....it was a rough one. An arguement that hardly ever occurs in our home and really gives you a reality check concerning your marriage and how somewhere along the line we both lost focus and lets face it control.

Honestly everything is fine. It was apparent Tim just needed some room to breathe and I needed an outlet at the time too. But just the thought of AT and I sitting there alone after he just walked out was earth shattering for me at that moment in time. But it still wasnt pretty when he came home. We both screwed up and we both realized that as the conversation progressed. Im thankful that arguements regardless how heated they are bring us back to realize why we are together in the first place. This move has been one of the most challenging things either of us have ever faced. Really. There was so much drama with the sale of our old house and being taken advantage of, then with the new house and it never being lived in made it really hard to get the conveinent things in life. It should never take almost 2 weeks to get a phone connected. Never. The stress just all came to a head.

So now we move forward and promised each other to try as much as we can not to get caught up in the everyday things of life. Bc all that will do is cause us to get too comf and take advantage of each other too easily. Our trip coming up is the perfect medicine right now. We really need to reconnect and relax. We are both looking forward to it more and more as the time goes by.

Getting back to basics.


Our Honeymoon - 2005